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When some women of the kingdom started saying that ‘Our queen had stayed outside someone else’s palace for ten months, yet the king accepted her and made her queen. Therefore, if we stay for one or two nights at some other places, then no one has the right to ask questions. Our husbands also have to accept us.”, then Sita was started being blammed. As the days passed, this thing got spread and the men of the state also started hating Queen Sita, because of whom their wives were becoming outlaw. When Rama came to know this, it was only a matter of concern for King Rama, but for Sita’s lover Rama, it was a heartbreaking treat. Sita, who remained in Ravana’s captivity for ten months, did not even let Ravana touch her, who kept Ravana away from the divinity of her love to Rama, is not only being questioned for sanctity, but also being used to commit adultery in her name. Now from here, let us assume that if Rama did not abandon Sita and kept her as queen, what would have happened? 

This perversion mass adultery would spread in the society and Sita’s example would be presented in its defense. The entire society would be surrounded in the perversion of adultery and would be destroyed in a mutual struggle for women. Any society in the past with accepted notions of free sex has been destroyed in bloodshed between men for women. That would be fate of Ayodhya too. And Sita would have been the ambassador of this entire distorted picture. Despite not being true, that day Sita would have proved unholy and characterless, because only then did she allow the whole society to be vanished behind such perversion. Today we would read about one such Sita in the Ramayana, who lost her purity in the captivity of Ravana and then encouraged the whole society to become such by becoming a queen. If Sita was not renunciated, today she would have been a stigma instead of an ideal for us, despite being innocent.

Both Rama and Sita were human beings of Vishnu consciousness. They knew this forward-looking picture. Both of them knew that now there is only one way to save the sanctity and prestige of Sita – that Rama and Sita who are one with the soul, should separate from the physical body. Their physical body was the only materialistic substance on the whole earth that had given them shelter, relief and peace from all those worldly pain. Now they had to give up that material object too and be spiritually attached to each other’s soul every moment. 

After all, this decision was taken. This decision was not the decision of any king and queen, nor of any social husband and wife. This decision was the decision of two lovers who had been succeeded to become husband and wife as well as king and queen. Now, all they had to do was become lovers again and relinquish the benefits of the other two relations. And they gave up these benefits. This decision was taken between two lovers in the bedroom, but it was implemented by King Rama to exemplify the lust-affected people to maintain their integrity. “Sita should be left forever near a hermitage in the forest. She can no longer be the queen of Ayodhya.” A man left the only precious thing in his life with these words, and with an act of a king. And for what? To prevent the society from going the path of wrongdoing. To stop the society from leaving its lust open using the name of Sita. To save his love from slander and slander of ages, a lover took the stigma of sacrificing his holy wife on himself, for ages.

Sita spent life in an ashram of Rishi amd Rama spent life with biting facilities of palace in absense of Sita and with responsibilities of the king. Neither of them even think of the other person, second marriage. Sita kept sleeping in the ashram and Rama slept on the floor in the palace, both remembering each other moment by moment. And when Sita penetrated in the earth as the final test, her holiness was protected forever. Ayodhya people were stigmatized and Sita became a goddess. Rama and Sita’s personal decision to abandon each other proved successful. But the stigma of leaving the holy wife on the forehead of Rama is still present in the group of men and women, holding the flag of women empowerment, and also in some foolish, semi-knowledgeable and conspiratorial people who cannot understand love. There is also a lot of blind rage among those who defend Rama, who do not want to hear anything against Rama, while some people are with an orthodox male mentality who still believe in the test of women’s purity. This article has been written for all those people of both the sides.

What Rama and Sita decided that can be done by only those lovers whose souls are connected from ages. If there were a common earthly husband and wife, then in that situation, either the husband would keep his wife’s body with him to use for sex, and let society commit wrongdoing in the name of his wife, which ultimately led to proof of accusation against his wife, or the husband would leave that wife and after some time would get married to another woman. The so-called intellectuals who criticise Rama should note that Rama did not do either of these two. Rama did not try to look good, which every common human does. Rama tried to be right. He did what was right. And with that great decision of human history, Rama not only saved the society from going on the path of unrighteousness, but also secured the reputation of his beloved Sita forever. But his own reputation is stained in this work. Perhaps Sita will have to repay this debt of Rama in another birth and do some work for Rama in which instead of looking good, it would be necessary to do what is right.